James Maurice Finch was born on June 29, 1941, in Loma Linda, California, and raised in Redlands, California. A true cowboy at heart, James had a lifelong passion for hunting and riding horses.
On September 21, 1963, he married the love of his life, Bobbie Holland Finch. Together, they built a life rooted in hard work and family. For over 32 years, they lived in Gibbon, Nebraska, where they farmed, ranched, and raised their four children. James was an avid team roper, spending countless evenings and weekends in the arena. He also raised and trained Quarter Horses for more than 25 years, developing a deep connection to the animals and the land.
James and Bobbie eventually relocated to Sandy Ridge, North Carolina, in 1997 to be closer to their children and grandchildren. Known to many simply as “Cowboy,” James was a familiar and friendly face at local cafés and community spots. His outgoing nature and warm spirit meant he never met a stranger—only friends he hadn’t yet made.
He is survived by his devoted wife of 61 years, Bobbie Finch of Madison, NC; his sister, Karen Finch Moses of Rim Rock, AZ; and his children: Dakus and Dianne Finch of Pine Hall, NC; DarLinda Finch and Kevin of Greensboro, NC; Andrea Finch and Varnie of Sandy Ridge, NC; and Cody and Kim Finch of Sandy Ridge, NC. He is also lovingly remembered by his grandchildren: Aaron Finch of Madison, NC; Megan Finch and Ryan of Mt. Airy, NC; and Dakota Finch of Madison, NC. Special caregiver Ashley Moore of Mayodan, NC. He was proceeded in death by his parents Ben M Finch, Ruby West
Finch, and Sister Carma Finch Lee.
James was known for his grit, humor, and strength. One of his favorite sayings was, “If you’re going to be dumb, you better be tough” and he lived it. He overcame a severe case of blood poisoning from a cattle fence injury, surviving after receiving more penicillin than was used in all of World War II. He also endured a horse accident that left him in a coma followed by a long road of rehabilitation to walk again. In his later years, he bravely battled one of life’s most difficult illnesses—dementia.
Despite life’s challenges, James lived fully, loved deeply, and brought joy wherever he went. To know him was to experience kindness, laughter, and a welcoming smile. He truly lived the good life—just as Nebraska’s motto says.
He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew and loved him.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Samaritans Purse at https://www.samaritanspurse.org/our-ministry/donate-online.
Terry Funeral and Cremation Service is honored to serve the family of James Finch and all are invited share memories or offer condolences at www.terryfuneralandcremation.com.
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